Following the
death of
Fernando Vargas, I
founded this
support group that at one time had 25 members,
including
Michael Callen.
His group, The
Flirtations, sang at the 1994 memorial we helped arrange at the
New
York Society for Ethical Culture. For
Luke Stanton in 1993, the
Stonewall
Chorale sang and activist
Andy Humm attended at a memorial that was
followed by good wine and food. For
Andrew
DeMasi,
who actually had been
Jesuit-trained and was listed in the White Pages as Rev. DeMasi, we
demonstrated
at Trinity Lower East Side Lutheran parish, 602 East 9th
St., because he had been relieved as
church organist upon their
learning he had AIDS. Meetings allowed an opportunity for
everyone to share stories
about their physicians, their hospitals,
their medications. Andrew, before his death, performed a
harpsichord
concert for our group and friends at another church. Luke
invited some of us to meet with him the night
he planned to take
certain pills in order to cease his pain, and we held hands with his
companion, his sister,
and his mother, only to be telephoned by him in
the morning that he was still alive, that the pills had simply
put him
to sleep. The following day he was able to carry out his wishes
to be relieved of so much pain.
Unable to obtain funds or a grant for an atheist group, I as the only
HIV- allowed the association to stop functioning.
Few members in 1995
were alive to continue attending. Michael Callen's positive activism
lives on in the
Callen-Lorde Community Health
Center, 356 West 18th Street, New York City
I presume you all know the recent
political development in Nepal. The king has dismissed the
civilian
government and has taken over. All fundamental rights have been
suspended and
emergency declared. Political and student leaders have
been arrested. it appears that king has taken
this step with the
consent of American government though American government has shown
concern
over the king's move. The whole country was devoid of all means
of communication (telephone,
email, internet, cellular phone) and the
government has allowed internet today but we do not know
how many days
it will last. Situation is seemingly normal but undercurrent is very
tense, and precarious.
We do not know at present how the situation will
develop but the king has put the institution of
constitutional monarchy
at a great risk. We feel very isolated. With best wishes and
personal regards